{"id":4615,"date":"2016-01-23T11:01:38","date_gmt":"2016-01-23T17:01:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.podles.org\/dialogue\/?p=4615"},"modified":"2023-09-01T17:22:37","modified_gmt":"2023-09-01T23:22:37","slug":"the-many-loves-of-ann-marie-saportas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.podles.org\/dialogue\/the-many-loves-of-ann-marie-saportas-4615.htm","title":{"rendered":"The Many Loves of Ann Marie Saportas"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Frederick<\/a><\/p>\n

Frederick Francis and Regina Matilda<\/span><\/p>\n

at the 1938 Horse Show Ball<\/span><\/p>\n

My wife\u2019s great uncle, Frederick Francis Alexandre (1894-1968) married Regina Mathilde Saportas (1898-1957), and therefore my wife is related to the Saportas family. They seem to be descended from Sephardic Jews who made their way to Brazil and married into the Maxwell (of Maxwell House Coffee) family. Regina\u2019s niece was Ann Marie Saportas (1923 -?). As I said in a previous blog, whenever a newspaper gives a full page to one\u2019s marital affairs, it is a bad sign. Ann Marie managed to get two full-page stories and mentioned in a tragic story. The newspapers were always interested in the American version of morganatic marriages, the unions of Society women and working class men.<\/p>\n

\"Mts<\/a><\/p>\n

Mrs. Marion Tiffany Saportas and Ann Marie<\/span><\/p>\n

\n

The Course of True Love<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Fell<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Anne<\/a><\/p>\n

Ann Marie at Coral Beach, Bermuda 1938<\/span><\/p>\n

Ann Marie was the daughter of stockbroker Martin Brown Saportas and Marion Tiffany. After her divorce from Martin, Marion set up housekeeping for herself and put Ann Marie, fifteen years old, in her own hotel apartment, and enrolled her in a business school to learn typing (perhaps the alimony was not all Marion had hoped for). This was a mistake. There Ann Marie fell for the twenty-year-old Gordon Watson Gillam, the son of a Scottish stationary engineer (i. e., janitor).<\/p>\n

\"George<\/a><\/p>\n

Gordon\u00a0Watson Gillam<\/span><\/p>\n

Six months after meeting George, Ann Marie wrote to him (September 1938):<\/p>\n

Just think, only seven more days and we will be off to Maryland, Delaware, or Virginia, or someplace. It is all so wonderful I can hardly believe it. I was looking up Tennessee on the map and we\u2019ll never get there.<\/p>\n

How much did you get for the dear old typewriter? For goodness sake, whatever you do, don\u2019t go and spend it for then we\u2019d be lost \u2013 and save all you can.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Gordon pawned the typewriter, and with that money the lovers eloped to Elkton, Maryland, East Coast Capital of quickie marriages.<\/p>\n

The marriage and honeymoon were over in a weekend, and Gordon and Ann Marie returned to business school, Gordon to his parents house and Ann Marie to her hotel apartment. They did not inform anyone of the new marital arrangement.<\/p>\n

But Marion came across one of Ann Marie\u2019s letters to her new husband and was extremely unhappy. She wrote to Gordon:<\/p>\n

I have just heard from my daughter of her marriage to you in September. I can\u2019t tell you what an awful thing this was for you to do. You know she is only 15 a minor you took her out of State and married her a criminal offense. I think the best thing to do for both of you is to have it annulled as soon as possible, and until that is done I expect you to leave her alone, not phone or write or try to see her.<\/p>\n

Please send me the marriage license immediately I will expect it by Friday or I will send my lawyer over to see you and your parents, if you have any.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be very pleasant for you if I have to go to law about it, which I shall do if you don\u2019t do what I demand. You know you have broken the Mann Act, as any lawyer will tell you.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Marion rusticated Ann Marie to her aunt\u2019s in Lawrenceville, Long Island. There Ann Marie wrote to Gordon:<\/p>\n

Now, we have to sometime so why not now discussing the practicle [sic] side of things. We have to live someplace, don\u2019t forget.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Ann Marie continued to be inconsolable.<\/p>\n

\"Ann<\/a><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

But then something happened. The annulment was in process and Gordon wrote back<\/p>\n

\"Ann<\/a><\/p>\n

However, Gordon changed his mind and tried to contest the annulment, describing the last incident as a lover\u2019s spat. But the court granted the annulment, and in October 1944 the lovelorn Gordon enlisted in the Army. When war came he rose in the ranks.<\/p>\n

\"Gordon<\/a><\/p>\n

2nd<\/sup> Lt. Gordon Gillam<\/span><\/p>\n

Luck smiled on Second Lieutenant Gordon W. Gillam of Astoria when the Joseph Hewes went down off North Africa and he smiled right back, Gillam made shore safely, stopped at a bar In Casa Blanca for a drink and met a shipmate who carried word home to the army officer’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Gillam of 27-72 12th street, that their son was safe.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Gordon was promoted to Captain and received the Bronze Star and the Italian Order of the Crown Chevalier.\u00a0 But his luck ran out. He is listed as a war casualty. He died June 28, 1946 and is buried in the American Cemetery at Florence.<\/p>\n

\n

 <\/p>\n

Double Trouble<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Anne<\/a><\/p>\n

Wartime often produces matrimonial muddles (as was shown in the very touching movie The Miracle at Morgan\u2019s Creek<\/em>). Ann Marie got involved in an interesting one.<\/p>\n

Ann Marie secretly married Marine Corps flying officer Lieutenant Allen Thomas Sturges in Vermont in July 1941. Sturges was a “playboy, ” a \u201csocialite,\u201d a member of what my late mother-in-law called Caf\u00e9 Society; they were not respectable.<\/p>\n

\"Allen<\/a><\/p>\n

Allen Thomas Sturges<\/span><\/p>\n

Sturges went off to war, Ann Marie got lonely, and in early 1942 she married First Sergeant Jerome Mark; but she neglected the formality of a divorce from Sturges. Four days after the marriage Jerome was shipped overseas. When her mother Marion heard of the arrangement, she expressed her bewilderment. Ann Marie explained why Sturges didn\u2019t count:\u00a0 \u201cWhy we went really married. We were just kids.\u201d<\/p>\n

In 1944 a man called her and asked if she were the wife of Allen Thomas Sturges. This time she said yes. She learned that the man on the phone was the father of Judith Scott, who had married Sturges, who had told her he was single. So Ann Marie had married Allen and then married Mark.\u00a0 Allen had married Ann Marie and then married Judith. No divorces intervened. Double bigamy?<\/p>\n

Sturges received a medical discharge from the Marine Corp. In 1945 he was tried for stealing diamond cuff links and a gold cigarette case from the home of actor Bruce Cabot. Sturges pleaded not guilty by reason of insanity; he was fined $500 and ordered to leave California.<\/p>\n

In 1949 Sturges was working in upstate New York for HydroCarbon Reesarch and then moved to Brownsville. Texas, where he worked in the aluminum welding division in at a plant his company was helping to build. Soon local police were seeking Sturges on charges of removing a mortgaged automobile and passing bad checks. He had forged Ann Marie\u2018s name to several checks.<\/p>\n

In October 1949 Sturges drove the stolen car to Houston and checked into an expensive hotel under the name of Stevens. Through mutual friends Sturges met Braniff airline hostess Marion Yturria and told her of his legal problems in Brownsville. He told her \u201cit would be a lot less worry for everyone if I just ended it all.\u201d She was frightened; he telephoned her at her office and she called the police. They told her not to go home alone; she took two friends, and they discovered that Sturges had broken in and shot himself through the right temple. Yturria was greatly upset by the indent, but she told the papers<\/p>\n

He was a gentleman the whole time I knew him. He made no amorous attempts toward me.\u00a0 I don\u2019t think you can blame anybody but the war. It\u2019s just an unfortunate tragedy that could have happened to anyone.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

He survived, but the bullet lodged in his brain. To his surgeon\u2019s astonishment, Sturges survived and recovered,<\/p>\n

He had left three suicide notes in his pocket, one with identifying information, one to Miss Yturria:<\/p>\n

I want to thank you for your help. You are the best friend a man could want \u2013 if I had known you longer I would have loved you \u2013 But, you are too good a woman for a person like me \u2013 Just say a prayer for me once in a while.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And one to his mother:<\/p>\n

My last will and testament: To my mother I will everything, insurance, etc. Mu body must be cremated. Mother, I love you.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

His mother expressed doubts that Allen had shot himself, despite the three suicide notes, and she admitted that he was suffering from a \u201cwar neurosis.\u201d Four hours before<\/strong> the shooting, a New York paper had received an anonymous tip that Sturges had killed himself, but there were no long distance calls from Houston to that newspaper. Mrs. Taveniere said she had gotten a telephone call that gamblers had pursued her son to Houston and shot him. But the allegations were never resolved.<\/p>\n

\"Allen<\/a><\/p>\n

Allen Thomas Sturges 1955<\/span><\/p>\n

Sturges, \u201cunemployed mechanical engineer\u201c in 1955 was sent to Bellevue for observation after he robbed an East Side bar. He\u00a0died in 2002.<\/p>\n

\n

 <\/p>\n

The Last Ones<\/span><\/p>\n

Ann Marie married \u00a0Wayne W. Dickinson on October 1959 in California. Joseph Chamberlain was Ann Marie\u2019s (third? fourth? fifth), in any case, last husband. They got hitched in Nevada in 1970.<\/p>\n

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